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Subject: Born Gay Wed Dec 20, 2023 3:53 am
Is sexual orientation determined at birth? (Why/Why Not)
DrLeftover  
Posts : 982 Join date : 2022-08-13 Location : Over there
Subject: Re: Born Gay Wed Dec 20, 2023 6:17 am
I remember when I was in grade school in the middle sixties, the teacher would take the pencil out of the left hand of any child who was trying to write their letters that way. And she would put it in their right hand and tell them that was the correct way to write.
Was that a 'personal choice' by the child as to which hand they used or was that determined well before they were born?
Jazzy  
Posts : 9063 Join date : 2022-08-13 Location : Vermont
Subject: Re: Born Gay Wed Dec 20, 2023 10:36 am
Sexual orientation is not completely predetermined. Most scientists agree that it is the result of a combination of environmental, emotional, hormonal and biological factors. In other words, many things contribute to a person’s sexual orientation and factors can be different for different people.
Sexual orientation is seen by experts and international medical organizations as an essential part of being human. It is like an individual not being able to choose his or her eye color or height.
Beaky  
Posts : 431 Join date : 2022-08-23 Age : 37 Location : UK
Subject: Re: Born Gay Wed Dec 20, 2023 10:54 am
do straight people decide to be straight.. its the same thing i dont remember deciding to be bisexual its just the way i am
Messy  
Posts : 1520 Join date : 2023-04-10 Age : 53 Location : Arnhem Netherlands
Subject: Re: Born Gay Thu Dec 21, 2023 6:56 am
I was nothing when I was a baby. Asexual. Can't remember I was lusting after someone. Can't imagine another baby lusting either, maybe after milk.
Jazzy  
Posts : 9063 Join date : 2022-08-13 Location : Vermont
Subject: Re: Born Gay Fri Dec 22, 2023 4:44 am
Beaky wrote:
do straight people decide to be straight.. its the same thing i dont remember deciding to be bisexual its just the way i am
Are you saying you were a bisexual newborn? Or....did something in your upbringing/environment make you bisexual?
Beaky  
Posts : 431 Join date : 2022-08-23 Age : 37 Location : UK
Subject: Re: Born Gay Fri Dec 22, 2023 6:29 am
Jazzy wrote:
Beaky wrote:
do straight people decide to be straight.. its the same thing i dont remember deciding to be bisexual its just the way i am
Are you saying you were a bisexual newborn? Or....did something in your upbringing/environment make you bisexual?
no im not saying that at all im saying i never made the decision to be bisexual just like im sure straight people dont make the decision to be straight either
Lämmchen  
Posts : 2190 Join date : 2022-08-15
Subject: Re: Born Gay Fri Dec 29, 2023 9:30 am
No one is born gay. Being gay means there is a sexual attraction to the same gender, and babies aren't sexually attracted to anyone.
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Beaky  
Posts : 431 Join date : 2022-08-23 Age : 37 Location : UK
Subject: Re: Born Gay Fri Dec 29, 2023 10:48 am
Lämmchen wrote:
No one is born gay. Being gay means there is a sexual attraction to the same gender, and babies aren't sexually attracted to anyone.
true but still no choices are made regardless of sexuality that comes with brain development i guess
Lämmchen  
Posts : 2190 Join date : 2022-08-15
Subject: Re: Born Gay Sat Dec 30, 2023 7:16 am
Beaky wrote:
Lämmchen wrote:
No one is born gay. Being gay means there is a sexual attraction to the same gender, and babies aren't sexually attracted to anyone.
true but still no choices are made regardless of sexuality that comes with brain development i guess
Brain development is influenced by experience and environments.